Child loss and grief

I love sharing guest posts from other writers and mamas. Today I want to share a post written by another loss momma about her beautiful …

“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Today started off …

When my son passed away there were many well-meaning comments given to me that just rubbed me the wrong way. I know that most of these comments are meant for good. But I think that most grieving parents can come up with their own list of phrases not to say to a grieving parent.

1 in 4 women suffer child loss. It is vital to keep the memories alive of these precious babies. The child loss community is making great strides in breaking down barriers and preconceived notions about child death. It will only be when bereaved families can feel heard and their children acknowledged that we know our job is done.

I have learned from this pregnancy, that no matter how much we as humans try to control a situation, including all kinds of monitoring even when it isn’t deemed “medically necessary,” it isn’t up to US. God has the absolute final say in every situation. I pray that God continues to guide me, comfort, and adorn me with his love and gratitude. I will continue to praise him in this storm. He is forever faithful.

You will have to learn to live life in a whole different way. This may seem difficult but it is possible. Be gentle with yourself. Allow other people to take care of you. Give yourself time to grieve and remember self- care is an important step in your grief. Life may not look like you thought it would, but you more than survive this. You can live again.